The Violence of Money: Let’s Talk About It

By Supriya Singh

(Under Review)

The book is about economic abuse, the untold story of family violence

In this book, I tell the stories of 12 Anglo-Celtic and Indian women in Australia who survived economic abuse. These stories paint the lived experience of economic abuse across cultures. They show that when the morality of money is missing, money as a medium of care can become a medium of abuse.

Each story paints how the woman was entrapped and lost her freedom because her husband denied her money, appropriated her assets and sabotaged her ability to be in paid work. The story is about silence, shame and embarrassment that this could happen despite her professional and graduate education. Some of the women were the main earners in their household.

Women spoke of being afraid, of trying to leave, of losing their sense of self. Many suffered physical and mental ill-health, not knowing what would trigger the violence. Some attempted suicide.

Most did not recognise they were suffering economic abuse and that it was family violence.

Each story is also different as economic abuse is shaped by the way women and men own, manage and control money in various cultures. Anglo-Celtic women told how the joint account which is a medium of care and togetherness became the medium of abuse when husbands stopped providing. Indian women spoke of how their husbands sent all their money and some of theirs, without consultation to their parents in India for luxuries.

The stories also differ within the same culture because more women are in paid work compared to their mothers. Thirty years ago, family violence was also considered a personal issue. Women were told ‘You made your bed you lie on it.’

Women shared their stories to help prevent economic abuse

The women told their stories so their daughters would not suffer family violence, their sons not become perpetrators.

They told how they had learnt to speak of money and family violence with their children, with future partners, with other women in private and public spaces. Their experience taught them the importance of the ‘emotional literacy of money’. They learnt it is important to share their stories of money if they wanted partnership in a relationship. They need to re-negotiate the balance between ‘my money’, ‘your money’ and ‘our money’ at every life stage.

These stories also reveal it is best to leave early before a woman begins seeing herself through the eyes of her abuser. Education is the base for financial resilience, but it is even more important to ensure continuity of paid work. Support from family and friends is invaluable. Seeking help from family violence services is important so that the woman can regain control of her life through programs to help women with housing, financial help, trauma counselling, coerced debt, and legal processes

Related publications:

  • Supriya Singh (2020). Economic Abuse and Family Violence Across Cultures: Gendering Money and Assets Through Coercive Control. In Marilyn McMahon and Paul McGorrery (Eds.) Criminalising Coercive Control: Family Violence and the Criminal Law. Springer Nature Singapore Pte Ltd.
  • Supriya Singh (2020). The Gender and Morality of Money in the Indian Transnational Family. In Lan Anh Hoang and Cheryll Alipio (Eds.) Money and Moralities in Contemporary Asia. Amsterdam University Press.
  • Singh, Supriya; Sidhu, Jasvinder (2020). Coercive Control of Money, Dowry and Remittances among Indian Migrant Women in Australia, South Asian Diaspora, 12(1), 35-50.
  • Singh, Supriya (2019). “The daughter-in-law questions remittances: Changes in the gender of remittances among Indian migrants to Australia.” Global Networks, 19(2), 197-217.

A House over the Diamond Creek

The book is a whimsical Journey through gardens and life. It is to be published by Brolga Publishing.

CONTENTS

Chapter 1          The Australian bush and its colours have slowly become

mine

Chapter 2          Friends in the garden

Chapter 3          Weeding is like research

Chapter 4          Mulching uphill

Chapter 5          Absence

Chapter 6          The fragrance of spring

Chapter 7          The drama of the birds

Chapter 8          Escaping to the garden

Chapter 9          A peahen in Travancore House

Chapter 10        Coming back

Money, Migration and Family: India to Australia

Supriya Singh is Honorary Professor, Sociology of Communications, at RMIT University in Melbourne, Australia. She lives in her homes in Melbourne and Dharamshala, and has two sons and three grandsons.

Her latest book is Money, Migration and Family: India to Australia published by Palgrave Macmillan in August 2016.

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This book tells the story of nearly five decades of Indian migration to Australia from the late 1960s to 2015, through the eyes of migrants and their families. Firstly, there is the marked increase of Indian migrants, shifting from the earlier professionals to a dominance of student-migrants. The India-born in Australia are the fourth largest overseas born group. Secondly, remittances flow two ways in families between Australia and India. Thirdly, family communication across borders has become instantaneous and frequent, changing the experience of migration, family and money. Fourthly, mobility replaces the earlier assumption of settlement. Recent migrants hope to settle, but the large group who have come to study face a long period of precarious mobility. Lastly, recent migrants re-imagine the joint family in Australia, buying homes to accommodate siblings and parents. This is changing the contours of some major cities in Australia.

http://www.palgrave.com/br/book/9781137557162

Her other recent books are The Girls Ate Last and Globalization and Money: A Global South Perspective.

Supriya was awarded the RMIT University Research Excellence Award 2014 for the College of Business.

Reviews of ‘Money, Migration and Family: India to Australia’

The book has now been published. See http://www.palgrave.com/gp/book/9781137557162

Here are the reviews:

 “Supriya Singh’s work is acclaimed for its penetrating contemplation of money and its relationship to identity, belonging and caregiving across the life-courses of the migration process and in every pocket of migrants’ lives. Singh tells the story of over 50 years of Indian-Australian migration history through the movement and meanings of the hard won remittances that flow from migrant to homeland and the monetary gifts that flow in the opposite direction. She excels at illuminating the cultural stickiness imbued in money that binds and disrupts individuals, families and communities within transnational, national and global economic frames.” (Professor Loretta Baldassar, Discipline Chair of Anthropology and Sociology, University of Western Australia)

“This is a phenomenal study of transnational Indian family networks. Based on more than a decade of ethnographic research on Indians in Australia, Supriya Singh shows how money intersects the extended family networks transnationally, sustains gender relations, and transforms the nature of global money flows. This book will be an invaluable resource for scholars working on migration, diaspora and transnationalism.” (Ajaya K. Sahoo, Editor, “South Asian Diaspora”)

To review the book: http://www.palgrave.com/gp/media-centre/book-review-process